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todayiamadaisy ([personal profile] todayiamadaisy) wrote2008-07-06 01:59 pm
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The modern guru's dilemma

The Saturday newspaper has a modern etiquette column called "Modern Guru", to which readers can write in with a query. Here is yesterday's question:

I got my husband's sister a $100 gift voucher to a beauty salon for her birthday. But before she could redeem it, the salon closed down. My husband thinks I should get her another voucher as a replacement but I think my responsibility was discharged in the giving of the original present, and what happened after that is irrelevant. Can you please confirm that I am right?

JS, Narrabundah, ACT


To which my answer would be (a) yes, JS, you are right: you've given the gift and it's your sister-in-law's fault that she didn't use the voucher earlier and (b) if your husband is so concerned, let him buy another gift himself.

But the modern guru, after a lengthy "humorous" piece about beauty salons, decided that JS was wrong and therefore owed her sister-in-law another gift.

Admittedly, there is a lot of information not provided that could change the situation: how long the sister-in-law had the voucher, how quickly the salon closed down, and so on. But on the facts given, I say it's the modern guru who is wrong. What do you think?

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